Invite friends and family to read the obituary and add memories.
We'll notify you when service details or new memories are added.
You're now following this obituary
We'll email you when there are updates.
Select your format and elements to print
Cary Upson Barr, 60, of Muskegon, MI, passed away on May 13, 2026. Cary was born on June 26, 1965, in Grand Rapids, MI, to Robin and Constance (Sinclair) Barr. He married the love of his life, Bretta Botbyl DeRouin, in 2024.
Cary graduated from Jenison High School and later attended ITT Technical Institute. His career began at Chuck E. Cheese, where he operated and maintained the animatronics at the Kentwood store for over five years. He went on to work at Nicholas Plastics in Allendale, MI, and eventually found his passion as a boilermaker with Local 69.
Outside of work, Cary was known for his love of tinkering-whether it was working on cars, snowmobiles, or various projects in his garage, he always found joy in fixing things.
Cary is survived by his wonderful wife Bretta, his two sons Kyle (Ariel) Barr and Jacob (Shelby) Barr, and his three cherished grandchildren: Wesley, Emma, and Wyatt. He is also survived by his sister Michelle (Jody) Genther, along with a niece, Alyssa, and a nephew, Trevor, as well as several aunts, uncles, and cousins.
A Celebration of Life service for Cary will be held at a later date, details to come. Please visit www.clockfuneralhome.com to share memories and sign the online guestbook. Cary will be missed dearly by all who knew him.
To order memorial trees or send flowers to the family in memory of Cary Upson Barr, please visit our flower store.
Visits: 386
This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the
Google Privacy Policy and Terms of Service apply.
Service map data © OpenStreetMap contributors